Stimulating a woman: this is how you do it right!

For most men, pleasing a woman can be very intimidating.

Figuring out what makes her tick and what types of caresses and touches she desires can seem very complicated, but she assures you can learn to satisfy her body hotspots and ensure she has fun every time.

Pleasing a woman in the bedroom isn’t nearly as complicated as it seems, and a lot of the struggle is simple in having the desire to do so. Read more about erogenous zones in women and do your best.

Stimulation of the female clitoris

Most of us are aware of a very narrow version of sex that is pleasurable for men but tends to be so for women coming shortly. Unfortunately, not much time is spent talking about the vagina or female pleasure. That’s why even women are sometimes unsure about how their organs work, what feels good in bed, and how they can reach orgasm during sex. Here are some proven ways to make sex better for her.

How to stimulate the clitoris

Here are some best practices for clitoral stimulation and female arousal:

1. Determine your preferred movement. Different people respond to different types of sexual stimulation. If you’re just starting out, try out different movements to find what you like best. Rub your clitoris with your fingers in small concentric circles. Tap the clitoral hood with your fingers. Gently press the clitoris and pull it up and down. Rub your clitoris on a pillow or other soft object.
2. Experiment with different sensations for female stimulation. Fingers are a great way to stimulate the clitoris, but many other tools can also provide pleasure, such as vibrators.Vibrators provide internal and external stimulation:
   • Two main types of vibration – rumble (low, deep vibration for slow and steady stimulation)
   • Buzzing (higher, more active vibration for more intense stimulation).

   There are also toys with air technology or with suction sensations that simulate oral sex.

   You can also experiment with different temperatures: warming lubricant or ice cubes can increase blood circulation and provide a new feeling. When purchasing toys and props, be sure to choose ones that are made from body-safe materials that are non-toxic and non-porous.

3. Use the clitoral complex. Although the pea-sized glans is the most visible part of the clitoral structure, it is not the only part: the anatomy of the clitoris extends around the vaginal canal. Stimulating these extensions – both the legs and the clitoral bulbs – can provide even more pleasure.

The clitoris is not the only female point of stimulation. Massaging the labia minora or penetrating the vaginal canal (with appropriate lubricant) are both ways to further stimulate the entire anatomy of the clitoris.

You can also try these techniques to stimulate a woman:

• Tilt: Rotate, raise or lower your pelvis and hips during penetration to adjust where the sex toy or penis rubs in the vagina.
• Mating: The woman or her partner simultaneously stimulates the clitoris with a finger or a sex toy during penetration.
• Rocking: The base of the penis or sex toy constantly rubs against the clitoris during penetration, remaining fully within the vagina rather than pushing in and out. Usually used when the woman is on top.
• Absorbs penetrating touch directly at the entrance to the vagina.

Many women enjoy penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time. So why not take advantage of it?